When to let go

 How do you know when it's time to say goodbye?  Almost 5 years of loving you and my heart says to wait it out that maybe you'll love me back but my head is telling me its time to move on and let you do the things you need to do to realize that I'm the one.  Or maybe I'm not...

I've been in love two times in my life.  My husband and then there was you.  A similar thing happened with both of you.  In a hug, a voice said very clearly in my head you're going to marry this man.  I married Bryan and with you I wanted to be your wife.  Now I don't know what I want because I give more than I get back.  

I feel like I don't matter.